Having arguments with others will make a disconnection in bonding with them. In this world everyone are different but understanding is difficult because we think that our way is right. Because we are on two different pages in life. All we want same things in life happiness, fulfillment.
We can never know understanding is one of the key to unbox happiness. All we do is force others to onto our path but we never attempt to understand others points of view.
How create a understanding and connection....
Bare : when have arguments or others are irritating you just bare it because they are hurt somewhere along the life. Have a tolerance in you and you can bare it. It's not easy but you can.
Accept : accept who they are, remember everyone are good at their hearts. Accepting is big thing but which gives you better understanding and making connection with others closely.
Respect & Honor : when you accept others there will be a respect. Respect others even if you won't get back from others. But at the end they will respect that patience that you shown towards them for there unknowing mistake. At end all honor is for both.
Appreciation : appreciate others who they are not whom we want them to be. We navigate different routes for happiness. At end we reach the ocean means same place. Appreciate the journey of others.
Be happy who you are, and who they are we all are different but we all are humans right. We make arguments, we fight but showing compassion to each other in that moment changes everything.
Understanding others is the greatest thing you do.
This is it man....